Floating on the calm waters, I felt some inner darkness recede for a time. I remember absorbing the light of the Sun and the power of that. I could feel life returning to my body — real life.
In a kayak on the waters of Walden Pond, in the serenity of the forest, I could smell the peace of the pines, and taste revival in the clear water. Life returned for a short time for me there. What darkness does to you is, when you come off of this, you remark internally that your kayak investment was a wise one.
Then someone showed me a picture of Kim Kardashian’s oiled-up butt.
Life can give you such an array of beautiful vestiges, and I so-happened to be one of the millions of humans (un)fortunate enough to witness this expression. At a glance, it would appear to be completely meaningless, and yet I feel there is a chance to see something good here. Bear with me.
Instead of this shallow judgement, there must be a deeper purpose; a simple integration of the life experience in general. In moments like this, I try to remember that there is good to be cherished in all things, and life to be shared. There is at least one instance that changes one thing in you for the better.
The issue for us is that this doesn’t happen automatically. We must deliberately make ourselves open to the possibility that this event is not an end, but a beginning: an opportunity for positive growth.
This is an obvious challenge. But nothing of value in this world of experience is easy to attain. Life itself is a challenge, and naturally strives to survive — it must, or it will surely fail.
So then we must try, or we will ultimately achieve, witness or experience nothing of value. Risk is the answer, and whether you like the outcome or not, the reward is always there waiting. A consequence, or the product of your risk, can be anything.
So I’m still thinking of how to fit Kim Kardashian’s nude glistening butt into this puzzle. How can it be valuable, or meaningful?
The undiluted truth about it is that you must, beyond all temptation, be happy with whatever life gives you — even from behind the shadow cast by an overpaid Armenian celebrity. You must accept it. Because if you don’t, you will not succeed. And so long as this ass on the Internet dissatisfies you, you will never be happy. At least with the Internet.
Behind these circumstances that we are blessed with is a challenge of our ability to love. We must love this somehow, and I don’t mean worship or copyright or distribute it mindlessly. And to do so, we must establish a system to make that possible. The only alternative is fear, or hate, or unlove, and the destruction of your humanity, the enslavement of souls.
This is where my brain goes when I read Kim Kardashian response articles like this. I’m not in particular agreement that it’s an opportunity to convince our society that it must make a huge effort to de-sex digital content right now (apparently). It appears to be more-so an opportunity for high-traffic position websites to garner attention for themselves, and thrust a population of arm-chair activists into a narrow, impulsive discussion of an enormous issue that goes far, far beyond Kim Kardashian’s latest, and hopefully last grabs for legitimacy.
What Kim’s choice does is reveal that she fears being forgotten, or that she is perhaps confused as to her true value as a person. With her personal objectification aside, should we not also become more aware of almost all that which we are objectifying around us?
Women are not the only people or things at stake in this. We have stripped many things of their depth, and deprived many people of their humanity, and chosen to make the outer facade the only aspect that is known or seen, and thus ‘important.’
It means that we must try to think deeper. We can’t make that happen by decrying the choice of Kim Kardashian to objectify herself. We must make a better effort to respond accordingly. I don’t believe the best way to do so is to run back to the ‘objectification’ argument. The problem isn’t ‘them’, ‘those people’, ‘that industry’ objectifying the female or male — its ‘us’, who ‘we’ are, and how ‘we’ choose to respond to those that try to want it do seem so.
One simple way to start is not to let yourself ‘react.’
Instead, find a way to ‘respond.’ Be present, open and at least attempt to see the good. In almost all cases, it is only a moist booty reminding you that your definition of love needs an updating.
Don’t forget this, and please do not take it lightly. It’s a huge undertaking.
We know where we need to change constantly. We know because there is a war occurring both inside and outside of every one of us. And we must respond. Take the road that best suits your goals — the one that brings you to be your personal best.
But for the sake of us all, you better choose love.